Its about sometime, that I’ve been following some traits that I don’t prefer to Anyone. Such as, sitting home idol, not doing a job, not giving time to myself, not improving on my week points, not eating healthy or taking care of my health, not exercising, not thinking positive, negative self talk etc.
And the Funny/ irritating part is that I know the solution, I can see the solution in front of my eyes, and many of the solutions are as simple as taking a step forward, but not sure why I don’t have that courage to take that step. I Always find myself sitting aside, not taking that one, simple step towards the solution….
The dangerous part is, now I feel more elevated and soothing in my imaginary world, I feel much alive in the fictional characters, stories, dramas, films; and that’s NOT good at all. Its because, this attitude is taking me away from reality. I must find my Happiness, Joy, Satisfaction from the elements of real life, not from Fiction. This is also dangerous for my mental health, as this would make me introvert and convert me in such a shy person that I’d not be able to talk to people – in person, would not make eye contact with people, and in the end would might be So Horrified that I’ll not put my foot out of the house.
Thus, my suggestion for myself and other is Don’t be afraid of what happens or what could go wrong, be Joyful/ Excited for what can you Achieve, what new thing/ feelings/ emotions/ experiences u can come across.
The First Step(towards freedom from your mind cage of doubts) is Always very difficult, but it’s essential otherwise, you’ll Never encounter the Beautiful, Mesmerizing world outside the cave of your doubts. Moreover, its You and ONLY you who need to take that first step, No One else can take it for you. People can give you confidence, encourage you, but not more than that. Its you who need to fight the devil of self doubt and fears, bring All the courage, Positivity and Power in one place and use it to break free from the chains that are holding you back; from being the BEST version of yourself, do what you want to do, Do what you are best at, go where your soul feels free and satisfied.
Therefore, take that first step, as soon as possible, because life is too short for, regrets.
GOD Bless you all. Ameen.
Until Next time,